My Autobiography by Michael Normandy, Sr.
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Grandma and Grandpa Simonetti lived in the apartment on the first floor. Grandpa was a good man, white-haired and old for as long as I can remember. Anytime I asked what he did for a living, I was told he was a carpenter. All I ever saw him doing was cooking for Grandma or cleaning around the house.
He did own the buildings at 181 and 184. I imagine he kept busy as the handyman/maintenance man for both buildings. He was a quiet, soft-spoken, gentle person, never to anger or raise his voice. He catered to Grandma night and day.
Grandma must have been afflicted with rheumatism or arthritis, or both. My recollection of her was always in a rocking chair or supporting herself by holding on to a chair back. As the years went by, she abandoned the rocking chair and resigned herself to the bed. Maybe I’m callous, but the old folks, or the sickly, expected to be pitied. It seems there were very few attempts to help themselves. Grandma wanted to be attended to whenever there was anyone around. If someone was not close at hand, she made herself heard, loud and clear, until someone did respond. Most of the time it was Grandpa. With two daughters living in the same building, someone was always at her beck and call.

I never had feeling for her as a grandchild should. Part of the problem was the language. We were not encouraged to learn to speak Italian. Too bad! Our parents should have insisted that we learn to read and write the family language. But this was America and all things foreign were to be cast away and forgotten. Only a few of my cousins spoke the "foreign" language, and then only when they had to.
I will say that no matter where we lived, and we lived in many different houses, Mom would go to see her mother many times each week. Since I was her darling son, I went with her. Everywhere and any place! I really didn’t mind because I would get to see cousin Louie. He lived in the same building as Grandpa and Grandma (Also known as "Nunna" - is that close to Nana or Nanny)

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Now Playing: 'O Sole Mio
Performed by Enrico Caruso
From the Album "The Best Tenor Ever"
These Italian lyrics are in the Neapolitan dialect that
our Normandia and Simonetti ancestors spoke for
hundreds of years in the small town of Palma Campania,
in the province of Naples, in the region of Campania.
Each city/state spoke its own dialect. Italy, as we know it
now, was unified and became the Kingdom of Italy in 1861.
After 1946, it became the Republic of Italy.
O Sole Mio
Che bella cosa na jurnata’ e'sole
n'aria serena doppo na tempesta
pe'll'aria fresca pare gia' na festa
che bella cosa na jurnata'e sole.
Ma n'atu sole cchiu' bello, oi ne'
'o sole mio sta nfronte a te!
'o sole o sole mio
sta nfronte a te ... sta nfronte a te.
Luceno'e llastre d'a fenesta toia;
'na lavannara canta e se ne vanta
e pe'tramente torce, spanne e canta
luceno'e llastre d'a fenesta toia.
Ma n'atu sole cchiu' bello, oi ne'
'o sole mio sta nfronte a te!
'o sole o sole mio
sta nfronte a te ... sta nfronte a te.
Quanno fa notte e'sole se ne scenne
me vene quase'na malincunia;
soto a fenesta toi restarria
quando fa notte e'o sole se ne scenne.
Ma n'atu sole cchiu' bello, oi ne'
'o sole mio sta nfronte a te!
'o sole o sole mio
sta nfronte a te ... sta nfronte a te.
Che bella cosa na jurnata’ e'sole
n'aria serena doppo na tempesta
pe'll'aria fresca pare gia' na festa
che bella cosa na jurnata'e sole.
Ma n'atu sole cchiu' bello, oi ne'
'o sole mio sta nfronte a te!
'o sole o sole mio
sta nfronte a te ... sta nfronte a te.
Luceno'e llastre d'a fenesta toia;
'na lavannara canta e se ne vanta
e pe'tramente torce, spanne e canta
luceno'e llastre d'a fenesta toia.
Ma n'atu sole cchiu' bello, oi ne'
'o sole mio sta nfronte a te!
'o sole o sole mio
sta nfronte a te ... sta nfronte a te.
Quanno fa notte e'sole se ne scenne
me vene quase'na malincunia;
soto a fenesta toi restarria
quando fa notte e'o sole se ne scenne.
Ma n'atu sole cchiu' bello, oi ne'
'o sole mio sta nfronte a te!
'o sole o sole mio
sta nfronte a te ... sta nfronte a te.
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